Weather looks the same as the day I was married..rainy and dark Lukas remembered our picture and yelled, that's where you stood mommy!
Also bittersweet to see a couple getting married on this day, and having had to sit through a "happy family" video while my mom was there felt awkward. Like sitting and watching what could have been while possessing the strongest realization ever that it was not that way, nor will be because of so many unspoken conversations that will never be spoken so that hurt feelings may finally be healed. But it is what it is. They chose what they chose based on their abilities and choices and capacities. And those capacities vary from neighbor to family member, due to lost baggage. Oh well. The best part was that my kid got to see where our pictures come from, and see the massive edifice where Jared and I got married. And feel Virginia rain on his face.